Sunday, February 24, 2008

Saturday, February 23, 2008

I’m starting to think that my blog might not be very interesting this year. I’ve just finished my first full week of school and don’t have much to report- at least not much that isn’t school related.

Tuesday was my first day at the hospital this year. All of my clinical days are on Tuesdays now- which I think I like a bit better than Mondays. As always- I really like my hospital days once I am there- but getting there is such a pain. 2 hours each way on the transit…plus now the fare has gone up to $14 return. I also seem to manage to get tons of blisters no matter what shoes I wear! Last week my heels were bleeding when I got home. Luckily, I don’t have to go there everyday. A few of my Canadian friends have bought cars this year, but unfortunately they don’t live close to me :(.

Luckily, the hospital was pretty interesting this week. I spent a lot of time talking with a man who was a tetraplegic (aka. quadriplegic). He had been ‘play fighting’ with his brother, fell backwards, hit his chin on the edge of a table and snapped his neck at C5. Seven years later, he has a whole slew of health problems (related to the injury mostly), his wife left him and his kids don’t talk to him anymore. He was in the hospital getting a giant pressure sore on his gluteus maximus treated (which takes about 3 months to heal). Needless to say, it was a very sad story- and I ended up talking to him for almost an hour.

Anyway, for the next 10 weeks, we will be studying neuroscience, vision and behavior. I think that it’s going to be very interesting, but also pretty challenging. We just finished our spinal cord injury problem (which was VERY interesting) and now we are moving on to epilepsy, hydrocephalus and spina bifida (all in this next week).

I have also recently joined a study group (which I NEVER thought I’d do). But, it actually seems like it might be a good idea. The people I joined are very studious and organized so it forces me to stay on top of things. I have also decided to apply for the honours program here- and do an honours project as part of my degree. I have found a supervisor, but right now I am working on my proposal so that I can get the project approved. I’ll write more about it when that happens!

My apartment is looking a little better these days. I’ve been trying to keep it as clean as I possibly can to avoid bugs- and it’s been working pretty well so far. I’m also pretty much set up without having to buy anything- except for a pot and a pan. Unfortunately, my fridge has been broken for over a week now and even though I bother reception about it everyday, they haven’t done anything about it yet. Back to a single bed... :( I have a few friends who are coming by (from Canada) to visit in the next few weeks. Jeremy, Tyler and Mike Landell (who all worked at the beach with me) are traveling in the South Pacific right now and are planning to be in Sydney sometime in the next month. I’m sure it will be nice to see them.I am also VERY happy and excited that Dad and Norma have booked tickets to come to Australia for a visit in May. :) After Bali, I have 15 weeks straight with no break- so I’m glad that I’ll have something to look forward to during that time.

This weekend has been really nice so far. Sunny and high 20’s all weekend- so I’ve been spending a lot of my time reading outside.

Happy Birthday to Mom also! (She’s in Oman right now, so hopefully she has a good birthday there!) Talk to you soon!

Saturday, February 16, 2008

Saturday, February 16, 2008

Well this past week has been a pretty big disaster- but at least things should only get better from here. Usually the worst part of the trip is saying goodbye to everyone- but this time it was all pretty bad.

It started with my flight from Toronto to LA being delayed by 4 hours because of a mechanical problem. For a while I thought that I was going to be able to stay in Toronto for the night, but they ended up making us go to LA because of the weather forecast the next day. I had only planned a 2 hour layover in LA, so I missed my connection to Sydney and was going to have to stay in LA for the day. Usually all flights going to Australia leave the west coast in the evening and get to Australia the next morning- but luckily, as we were landing in LA at about 3am, the captain announced that there happened to be a delay with a Qantas flight and that they might hold the plane for us. So, a few hours later, after some running and some more waiting, I was on my way to Sydney.

We got into Sydney about 5 hours later than scheduled, so my plans for the day were thrown off. I waited for my bags for about another hour before giving up (even though the Qantas agents in LA assured us that our bags would make it). We are 5 days later now and I STILL don’t have my bags. It’s been ‘interesting’ wearing the same clothes for almost a week now.

When I arrived I had my cell phone with me, and while I was waiting for my baggage Discount car rental called me to say that the one-tonne truck I had reserved for moving that day had been in a crash and that it was no longer available. An hour later my cell phone battery died (and my charger is in my lost bags), so I have been without a phone since then. Luckily, I had time to get in touch with Janice and Mark who helped me move some of my things that afternoon.

I’m living in SUV again- which is the same student complex that I lived in last year. But this year- for the small price of $50/week extra I have a kitchen sink, 2 hot plates and a bit of extra space. I was really disappointed with my new place when I first arrived because it was horribly dirty and there were spiders and cockroaches EVERYWHERE. It wasn’t really what I was hoping for after the trip I just had. Plus, my door opens outside and my room is on the ground floor- which means much less security and much more BUGS- so needless to say I wasn’t very happy about that either.

On Thursday morning, I went out and bought a whole BUNCH of cleaning supplies, bleach, bug sprays etc… and cleaned my entire place from top to bottom (what a nice way to spend Valentine’s Day, eh?). I also bought a broomstick for my sliding door (which I cut to size with a bread knife) for some extra security- which was Brent’s idea. Now I am feeling a little better about the place and I haven’t seen any bugs since (inside my apartment, at least) :). Brent also sent me a BIG bunch of flowers on Valentine’s Day, which was so nice. The lady at the front desk said it was the biggest box of flowers she had seen all day! :)

Friday was my first day of school for the year. I had a PBL session on spinal injuries (another motorcycle accident) and then a lecture for an hour from our sub-deans trying to scare us into studying really hard this year. Hopefully it worked. He he he. After class, Nick and I walked along King Street to get some groceries and on our way saw a really bad motorcycle accident (which was pretty ironic considering our PBL a few hours earlier). The girl looked like she was conscious and there was a mob of people who ran to help, so Nick and I didn’t stay too long. But on our way home, they were still cleaning up the scene and there were 4 ambulances still there!

Friday night we all went to a bar along King Street for some ‘Welcome back drinks’. I didn’t stay long because my jet-lag was catching up with me, but it was nice to see some of my friends.

I am halfway thru my weekend now and haven’t done much since I don’t want to have to wear my dirty clothes again and because I really want to be here if my bags actually EVER arrive. Luckily, it was 22 degrees and cloudy today (and is supposed to rain tomorrow), so I don’t feel like I’m missing much by not going to the beach.

Brent and I did spend a lot of today (on the phone of course) trying to plan our trip to Bali in March. Hopefully it will come FAST!Sorry I don’t have any pictures from this past week- but my camera is in my checked luggage which is still MIA.
I did have a really great last few weeks at home though- which made it a lot harder to leave. The surprise party for Dad was a success… even though it wasn’t a total surprise (since I’m sure he knew that I wasn’t going to see ‘Rambo’ with him for the fun of it). Tons of people came and I think Dad had an especially good time. He he he. ;) Jamie also discovered that his ‘drunk mannerisms’ are genetic. :) During the last few weeks, Brent and I also spent a few more days in Collingwood, went to the Scandinavian spa again, visited Betty and Floyd, and spent a lot of time looking at possible wedding venues for next January. We also had a lot of nice dinners before I left, but it was sad to have to say goodbye to everyone. This past weekend was a pretty busy one- so luckily I didn’t have much time to think about having to leave. On Saturday, Mom managed to get Jules, Matt, Brent and me some tickets for the Leafs vs. Detroit game at the ACC. We were all sporting our brand new MOORE jerseys too- which was pretty fun.Also, Brent got recruited to be in the ‘game-show’ in between the second and third periods. He didn’t win (the trip to Tampa Bay to see the Leafs play) but we both got to go down to the glass for about 20 minutes before he went on the ice. It was pretty exciting! After the game we met Mark and Steve down in the players lounge and waited for Dom to get changed. It was good to see them all.That night we had dinner at Mom’s house with Rob and Cindy and saw lots of Rob’s Africa pictures. They were amazing.

Well I guess that’s it for now! Hope everyone is enjoying the snow at home. I have to say I’m actually enjoying this Sydney weather right now. I was expecting it to be about 33 degrees, not 23… so it was a pleasant surprise. :)

Monday, January 21, 2008

Monday, January 21, 2008

It’s been a full few months at home I’m pretty sad that it’s almost over already! I haven’t been writing my blog much since I’ve been home, but I have been taking lots of pictures!Christmas was busier than ever this year. I think that Brent and I had about two and a half weeks of straight Christmas and/or Birthday dinners. Mom’s Christmas party was nice- but a little smaller than usual, especially because of the giant snowstorm that hit Toronto that weekend (December 15-16). Nana, Nono, Terry and Madeline had to take a bus to Toronto to make it! … It seemed like a lot of trouble for all of them, but I was sure happy to see them all. :) Rob, Cindy, John and a few friends also came!The next day we had to go to Etobicoke for a birthday party for Brent at his aunt’s house. All our cars were totally stuck, so Brent’s sister had to come and pick us up in a truck. (This picture is taken on the Gardiner Expressway in Toronto on Sunday, December 16.)
In the evening, Dad and Norma had Brent’s whole family over for dinner. :)
On Monday we had the McLeod Christmas at Brent’s sister’s downtown condo. Brent and I went there early and we all had a nice swim (in a salt water pool) and spent some time in the hot tubs in the building. After that we had a really nice dinner and exchanged presents. It was another nice night!

The next day Brent and I headed up to Collingwood to spend some time at the condo. It was a nice few days and we got to visit lots with my friend Heather while we were there. It was her birthday on the 18th, so we made her dinner and drank 4 bottles of wine (between the 3 of us)!We also went skiing at Blue Mountain with Heather and spent one evening at the Scandinavian Spa in Collingwood. The Spa was so nice! We got free massages (cause of Brent’s insurance) and spent a lot of time in the steam rooms, saunas, outdoor hot tubs and “cold baths”. It was amazing. The night we got back to the city was Brent’s birthday dinner and party with his friends. Sixteen of us went for dinner at the Golden Thai downtown and then a bunch more people met us at a bar called Laide (which we JUST found out is apparently a swingers bar!!) he he he… ooops. I guess that’s what happens when you try to plan things from Australia. Luckily none of use had any clue at the time, and I think everyone had fun. :)The next week was a bit of a blur- Jules, George and I drove up to Ottawa for the weekend and visited with Granny, Grandpa, and Adele’s family.We met Dad, Norma and Jamie there and then drove to Barrie the next day for Betty’s Christmas party. Amazing food, presents and puppies- as usual!On Christmas Eve, Norma took Jules, George and me for our annual breakfast and pedicures downtown. In the evening we had a nice Christmas dinner at Dad’s house and exchanged presents there. This was also Brent’s actual 30th birthday, but he was working nights so we didn’t have much time together at home. Instead, I headed down to the marine unit after our Christmas Eve family dinner and had a birthday dinner with Brent.On Christmas we didn’t even leave the house. We had 2 Christmas meals with Mom and played A LOT of foosball.On boxing day Brent and I headed up to Thornhill to visit Anna, Jack and Steve. It was great to see them especially because it had been over a year since our last visit. We had a nice little breakfast with them and then headed up towards North Bay to visit with Brent’s family for a few days.We stayed with Brent’s Aunt Joanne in their beautiful house overlooking Lake Nipissing and had lots of nice meals at Brent’s grandparents’ place and his Aunt Claudette’s. We also went skating in Powassan and played some outdoor ‘boot’ hockey with his cousins. It was all fun except that I was pretty sick and my head felt like it was going to explode for most of the time. I stayed in bed for 2 days when we got home.

Mom took Jamie, Jules and George to Mexico for the next week but I decided not to go. Instead I relaxed at home for a few days, went to a nice New Years Party with my high school friends and spent some more time with Dad, Norma, and Brent in Collingwood. We spent one afternoon in Collingwood at the Scenic Caves which is a beautiful area beside Blue Mountain for cross country skiing and snow shoeing. Dad and Norma tried out their new snow shoes and Brent and I rented some. We all loved it and I can’t wait to go back. :)On our way home from Collingwood, Brent and I stopped to visit Amelia and Kirsty at Amelia’s family farm. We had a nice dinner there and then headed home. Jamie, Jules and George had to all go back to school/work the next day and I was sad to see them all go. :( I’m hoping they’ll come visit me in Australia tho. He he he

The next week Brent was working so I spent a lot of time catching up with my friends.(This was at the 'Polar Bear Dip/Paddleboard' at the beach in Toronto on January 12th. Those two-Boder and Jon Berrie- jumped in Lake Ontario without wetsuits right after this picture was taken!)I spent 2 nights with the beach people and met up with one of my old swimming friends, Jen Brankovsky, who is now in Med school in the Czech Republic.
Unfortunately at the end of that week, after 6 weeks of waiting, Brent and I got the horrible news that we had been dreading. The Australians denied his student visa. We were both really sad and disappointed and it took us a few days to recover from the shock.

We are pretty much out of options now (as far as visas go) and we are very frustrated with Australian Immigration. We never thought that they would be so unreasonable and unfair. Our families and friends will be happy to know that there is no possibility of us staying there after I’m done school- but unfortunately that doesn’t make us feel much better about the next 15 months that we have to spend apart.

I’ve now booked by ticket to go back to Australia alone on February 11th. I’ll have to live in the same place as last year since I didn’t put much effort into finding a new place (because I was assuming Brent and I would find a place together when he got his visa).

There are a few good things that have come of this, but I can say that I would give it all up in a second if the Australians would let him have a visa.

The first thing is that we’ll be able to do a little traveling since we will have to meet in other countries during my (few and far between) holidays this year. We have a few ideas right now- Thailand, Vietnam, Bali, New Zealand or Hawaii. The price of the trips will probably determine where we end up, but they all seem like pretty neat options.

The second, and more exciting thing is that we’ve decided to plan our wedding for next January (probably the 10th or 17th). Next year will be my last “summer holiday” EVER, so it seems like a perfect time to have the wedding. Brent will have lots of planning to do while he is home without me, but I’m sure he’ll have some help :). He he he. Anyway, we are pretty excited about it and we’re hoping that it makes this year at least a little easier to get through.The last exciting thing that has happened lately (to cheer us up) is that Dom was just picked up by the Toronto Maple Leafs!!! This past Tuesday was his first game at home and I was lucky enough to get a ticket to the game! :) It was so exciting and I was so happy to be there. Brent also came along and bought a ticket from a scalper since he’s a REAL leaf fan and was really excited to see Dom as a Leaf too! After the game I was able to catch up with Dom and Mark for a bit, which was also nice since I missed them both at Christmas time.Brent and I just got home from a nice weekend in Montreal visiting Jamie. We had a great time, but I’m not sure that Montreal is the most appealing place to be at this time of year anymore. He he he.As usual I ended up writing way more than I was planning, so hopefully someone manages to get through it all. :) Happy New Year to everyone! Take care and talk soon.